Financial secrets: Hiding Purchases From Your Loved One

By, Special for  USDR

13 million Americans have hidden a bank or credit card account from their live-in spouse, partner or significant other, according to a new  report.

Those accounts aren’t the only financial secrets Americans are hiding: 41% have spent over $100 without their spouse or partner’s knowledge, including 19% who have spent more than $500. Men are almost twice as likely as women to have spent more than $500 without notifying their spouse or  partner.

Most Americans can’t be accused of hypocrisy when it comes to financial secrets, though. While 19% of Americans have secretly spent $500 or more, a larger percentage –24% — believe that their spouse or partner should be able to spend more than $500 without letting them know. Also, while 41% of Americans say they’ve spent more than $100 without telling, 47% said they’d be OK with their spouse or significant other spending more than $100 without being told about  it.

Honesty and openness are still the best policies when it comes to managing money in a relationship, believes Matt Schulz,’s senior industry  analyst.

“Avoiding secrets is key to a successful relationship,” Schulz said. “It’s important to be honest with your significant other about spending and finances. In the end, secret spending can lead to spiraling debt as well as a messy break  up.”

  • Millennials and seniors are less likely to spend over $25 without their spouse or partner’s knowledge than people between the ages of 30 and 64.
  • Surprisingly, out of all the income groups, the middle class were the most approving about having their spouse or partner spend$500 or more without having to know about it.
  • Northeasterners were the most likely to have spent more than $500 without their spouse or partner knowing about it.

Schulz advises all couples to create an accurate household budget to better track all spending—that can help keep down debt and create a lower-stress environment for your  relationship.

The survey was conducted by Princeton Survey Research Associates International (PSRAI) and can be seen in its entirety  here:

PSRAI obtained telephone interviews with a nationally representative sample of 1,003 adults living in the continental United States. Interviews were conducted by landline (500) and cell phone (503, including 340 without a landline phone) in English and Spanish by Princeton Data Source from January 7-10, 2016. Statistical results are weighted to correct known demographic discrepancies. The margin of the sampling error for the original complete set of weighted data is plus or minus 3.6 percentage  points.

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